One night my better half says, “Oh yeah, next week I have a dinner engagement.”
Oh, okay….whatcha doin?
“My company is a sponsor for the Pink Flamingo Awards, so I”m going to go.”
My response….blink blink. Blink blink.
You didn’t think I’d want to go?
A. It’s an award show
B. There’s pink flamingos
I say, “Okay so can you bring a date?”
He says, “Well yeah.
Okay then…I’m coming.
He then advises me its to support the local LGBT Visitors Center and they’ll have Drag Queens.
My jaw hits the floor.
AND YOU DIDN’T THINK TO TELL ME ABOUT THIS SOONER? Hello? How long have we been together? This is right up my alley. These woman are fabulous!
To double check, I ask if this is a dress up event. Yes. Wear a dress.
Perfect. Got the perfect black dress.
He then says, because up until now, I’ve had a shit day…..you could wear one of your wigs.
Stop the train! REALLY!
I immediately ran to the box where I keep my wigs.
I knew exactly the one I wanted. Got it out. Got my comb. Brushed it out. Tried it on. Was delighted.
The Wednesday arrived and the plan was hatched….meet at the Miami Convention Center at 7:00PM and enjoy the night. Silent auction, dinner, cocktails, award show – oh my! Whoop, whoop!
5:30PM I call the Mister and tell him I’m heading over to our company gym to shower and get my wig on. He says, “oh that’s too early, might as well wait.”
Okay, well you know what? Don’t listen to a man, when you know how long it’s going to take you to get ready. What the hell do they know anyway?
They know bubkiss.
They’re a PIMA. (Pain. In. My. Ass.)
I thought he might be right. So I waited until 6:10PM.
Went over to the gym.
Jumped into the shower.
Did my make up.
Put almond oil all over my arms and legs so I have not only a nice scent but subtle glow to my skin. Perfect!
Add the perfume and then take my black dress out of the cotton garment bag.
I pulled my grey and black shoes out and my satin handbag…finally, it was time to get dressed.
Please note: At this point in the evening’s program, we have a problem Houston…
It all went to hell in a hand basket and we were in the express lane. And the express lane was free of charge tonight. Of course.
Knew it. Should have went with my gut. Why? Why, listen to a man when it comes to getting ready?
Unless he is a Drag Queen or a prima donna – they’re clueless. PIMA!
I am so unimpressed at this point.
There I am, half dressed in my cute black dress with not a soul to be found in the ladies locker room and the
fucking zipper on the back of my dress is stuck. I don’t just mean stuck as in I’ve gained a lot of weight and it won’t zip. I mean like it’s frozen and not going to move an inch.
There’s a good five inches to go before it’s zipped up to the top – which would be mid back.
My hands were previously oiled, so I wash them yet again.
I pull the dress down as far as I can.
I try and turn the dress around to the front to shimmy the zipper.
I pull the dress up higher and try to pull the zipper up.
I try squeezing the zipper together.
I contemplate going as is.
I ponder wearing my sheer black and white polka dot shirt that I wore to work over the dress.
(only if I’m desperate) And that’s not really an option.
I contort my arms to try again to pull the zipper up.
First, left arm over. UGH!!!
Then the right arm over the top…..
Maybe if I turn just a little.
Are you fucking kidding me?
I wait and hope a female walks in.
I think about going out into the gym. It’s a guy at the desk and think…..He could zip it. What if he can’t? Okay that would be embarrassing.
On the way to the awards I could stop somewhere and buy something, which is a good idea.
But then I’d have to get OUT of this dress and I can’t do that either.
Well what the hell?
I stop and look at myself in the mirror. Sweat, is pouring down my face. I’m a total mess. Is the air conditioning on? TURN ON THE AIR CONDITIONING!!! THE ALASKAN IS DYING IN HERE!
You have got to be kidding me.
Maybe the sewn in slip is bunched up and I start patting down all the layers.
NOW! How about NOW!!! Arms go up and over to work the zipper.
I try and pull the dress up as far up to my arm pits again.
I rest my sweaty forehead against the mirror.
I pack up my bag.
My plan is to go as is and my better half is going to have to figure it out in the parking lot. Mental note, pack black duct tape in the car next time.
I am pissed…..I don’t have time to brush my teeth and what is even worse…..
I have to go. I wash my hands and do a final makeup touch up. By makeup – touch up I really mean mop my face with paper towels. I return to get my bag and try one last fricking time with this damn zipper.
Just kidding! Zip! Tah-dah! No problem.
Are you kidding me?
For the love of Pete.
I get to the car and it’s 6:50PM. Zip over the Causeway to Miami Beach. The air conditioning is on FULL ARCTIC BLAST and I arrive at the Convention Center just in time for cocktails. I throw on the fascinator I made for a Titanic dinner in Juneau….and while it wasn’t my wig I got enough compliments, so I was happy enough.
We arrive and head immediately to the bar. I’m busy texting a friend about an item I bidder on him from the Floppy Rooster….I stop suddenly and when I look up we’re behind not one but TWO Drag Queens. Lady one, later advised the crowd she was NOT a Drag Queen but a transgender, which was fine. She was lovely. Reminded me of someone I know. The other one. Well, I admit…………startled the hell out of me. One of those, I couldn’t help but stare, but not stare for fear she’d call me out on it. Nope, no picture needed. Thanks!