I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again.
We. Like. Our. Space.
That’s why we prefer to live in a state where there’s only 1.5 people per square mile. Love that. In my square mile I’d designate Liggy, our cat, as the .5 measurement. (That’s correct, Eric can get his own square mile…mine is full.) Unfortunately, however, I’ve moved to Miami and the luxury of personal space went out the window along with owning sensible shoes.
Which, by the way, if you would have told me at this time last year I’d be wearing platform heels I would have laughed myself to the point of a side cramp. Now, I have several pairs to choose from in the closet. Not to mention the colors. Yes. The shoes I get the most complements on? The hot pink Jessica Simpsons – thank you very much.
There was this one pair I drooled over in DSW. They were vanilla colored, satin fabric, platforms that not only had a rhinestone on the front but feathers as well. LOVED those shoes. Went to try them on several times.
Then I thought to myself:
Self, when are you realistically going to wear these shoes?
I’d wear them to work?
No. I didn’t buy them. Sigh.
Anyway, back to the issue. I wish the people of Miami would do me one little favor:
I have never been anywhere in this short lifespan of mine that has had so many strangers trying to climb up my ass every single day. Not only that but they’re pissy people at that!
It would be one thing if you were a smooth talking, good looking, sweet smelling suave and swanky personality that would cause me to swoon as soon as you grinned. However you’re not anything close to making my knees buckle Miami…..
Driving down I-95. Am I supposed to be impressed as your flashy Porsche flies past Norman like he’s standing still? Probably. And I am impressed. I’d love to go for a ride in that! Sexy and fast. Sign me up.
However it’s the idiot in the Honda with the stupid loud muffler that’s trying to act like he’s all that AND a bag of chips….but when in reality he isn’t even the stale pickle on the plate. Really? You’re going to tail me and try to intimidate me? Okay well I’m slowing down by at least 5 mph. Oh yeah baby, that big rip of a scrape along the left side of your car door – that’s so hot. Meeeeoooow,
If you’re going to get that close, I hope you brushed your teeth.
Then there’s the cars that when you look in the rear view mirror you already know what’s coming next. (It’s like watching a Heat game and you just know they’re going to win….the opposing team really shouldn’t have bothered to show up.) Before you can change the radio station with the flick of your thumb on the steering wheel….no, Norman doesn’t have that ability….it’s just wishful thinking…..the car has climbed up over your back fender and is changing lanes just as fast.
Damn really? And then the traffic slows down and you’re side by side with Mr. Slick Ass.
And the point of that was what exactly?
More than driving, the one thing that absolutely brings me to the edge of insanity in :15 seconds flat is personal space. I have gotten to the point where anything inside my imaginary hula-hoop is MINE. The hula-hoop is made of titanium and can’t be broken. You step inside the hoop and you’re going to be in my way.
Enough already. Do I have a sign on my forehead that reads, “newbie….transplant from Alaska” which gives you the permission to try and body check me at your convenience? Oh, there wasn’t a sign, you’re just rude by nature? Wow. Your parents must be so proud!
Case in point: tonight I stopped at Pet Smart. Liggy, was in need of kitty treats, which I can only find at Pet Smart. I stood in line. My purse, which isn’t a suitcase by the way, was hitched over my forearm…..comfortably cradled in the crook of my left elbow.
This woman comes up and while there’s nobody standing near me for 3 miles….manages to walk into my purse as she’s going around me.
As she gets around to my right side, where I am holding another bag in my hand….from the grocery…she bangs into that as well.
OMG what am I? Magnetic? For pete’s sake….you have the entire front of the store yet you are drawn to me like freedom fighters to a noble cause. Can you really not manage to give me a few inches to breathe? Even the casher grimaced at me with an apologetic face.
The grocery stores are even worse. Nobody has any concept of personal space. I don’t just mean in the check out lane, where they push their cart all the way up to the handle bar of your cart the moment you turn your back. I’m talking about walking down the wide main aisle of Target and it’s three across going one way….large and in charge. And two coming directly at you.
Cue the Wild West Gunslinger Music….there’s going to be a shoot out.
It’s gotten so bad at Target that I will go out of my way to avoid certain areas because the people are going to drive me crazy before I can even get to the toilette paper. You try and go around and it’s like they have crazy ESP. Fake left, they go right. Fake right, they go left. Double back to go forward and they’re right there….quietly pondering what to have for dinner….steak or chicken…as they push the cart…down the middle of the expansive aisle.
The side aisles are the trenches of warfare. Forget trying to make your way from one end to the other if there’s another person in the row. The rule of “finders keepers” is definitely in play. They won’t give you an inch to spare one square. It’s a new game of ostrich….
“While I don’t have any available sand to stick my head in so I can ignore you….if I just plain out pretend I don’t see you then you can’t see me and life is good. So fuck off and go around me because I own this universe. Okay, I own this aisle!”
Okay, get over yourself and move your damn cart already.
Today I got on the elevator at lunch. It was crowded. The last guy on rather than turning around to face the door, decided to keep his back to the door and face the rest of us. He was busy emailing. Good grief people!!! Save yourselves and release the smart technology for two minutes and join in the rest of society. Buddy, you closely resemble an ass and if you had any idea, you would have been horrified, of this I am certain.
Yes, he finally turned around and in the process moved closer to me so his screen was nearly eye level with my eyeballs. Do you really think I give a fuzzy hamster’s butt about the upcoming meeting regarding the 42-B template for designs of toilette flush handles? No. I. Do. Not.
Stop being so pretentious. Stop trying to put your business in my face.
I. Don’t. Care.
While we’re on the topic of elevators and people and being pretentious and putting their business in my face….I want to discuss sweatpants. Specifically the ones with words across the butt.
I have two observations.
1. Whoever thought of this concept obviously didn’t think about including regulations for appropriate wearage.
2. Just because they fit doesn’t mean they look good on you.
Dear heaven above, save my eye balls from bloody ruptures if I have to see another butt going by that rolls so much I can’t even make out what the words are: AGNES, NAGES, ANGLES, AGILES, ANGELS, LANGS…..
w. t. f.